by Pastor Antonee Aguilar
Growing up in a family of pastors—my grandfather, father, brother, and uncles—I have witnessed firsthand the diverse challenges churches worldwide face, especially the Seventh-day Adventists – precious people leaving our church. It made me ponder the reasons behind that and has fueled my passion for reaching out to ALL generations, as it saddens me, especially seeing my friends whose families, or even themselves, are drifting away from God and the church they once loved when they are facing a "crisis of faith" which usually happens during their life's transitions. Studies show that people often leave their church community when they start a new career, enter relationships, take on increased responsibilities to meet personal or family needs, move to a new location, or even try to understand God's character and the church's role.
Understanding the Crisis of Faith
Sometimes, in a person’s life, they undergo a "reordering of faith" where they reassess their beliefs and practices. During these stages, we will hear questions about our role as Christians and the influence we have. Questions will make us ponder: “What is the church approach in ministry, or are we to blame for the weak discipleship produced in our churches? Are parents to blame for the shaky faith of their sons and daughters? Is our culture to blame for the ungodly influences luring into disbelief?” These are challenging and honest questions that we need the Holy Spirit to guide us as we reach out to those in crisis. Still, when we recognize their challenges, it is a powerful opportunity to connect and journey with them as we try to MAINTAIN the bridge where we will be an instrument for them to find their way back to God.
In her book Education p. 78, Ellen White writes, “He who seeks to transform humanity must himself understand humanity. Only through sympathy, faith, and love can men be reached and uplifted.” This calls for us to actively create supportive communities that stand alongside individuals during times of uncertainty. By doing so, we honor their journey and contribute to cultivating a more profound and stronger faith in Jesus.
One author said, “The greatest gift you can give your children [family and friends] is to let them see you struggle and wrestle with how to live a lifetime of trust in God." [Emphasis added] Yes, it’s essential, too, to share our story and the challenges we once encountered.
A Call for Compassion and Presence
Churches (we) are called to be present during critical moments of doubt. Instead of viewing faith crises as failures, we should embrace them as opportunities for deeper engagement and connection. Doubts are not the end of the road but rather opportunities for growth. Rather than halting our spiritual journey, moments of doubt can lead to a deeper connection with God.
By listening empathetically and providing thoughtful guidance from the Scripture while claiming God's promises, we can help individuals navigate their doubts, rediscover their faith, and lead them to remain obedient and righteous before God with the help of the Holy Spirit. As Paul instructed Timothy in 2 Timothy 4:2, we should “preach the word...correct, rebuke, and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction.” [Emphasis added]
Ministry of Healing, 73.4 states, “Christ’s method alone will give true success in reaching the people. The (A1) Savior mingled with people as one who desired their good. (B1) He showed sympathy for them, (C) ministered to their needs, and (B2) won their confidence. Then (A2) He invited them, ‘Follow Me.’” [Emphasis added – Chiastic structure] Yes, through understanding a person’s life, showing sympathy, and embodying a Christ-like attitude, we can effectively reach those in crisis and prayerfully lead them to Jesus once that trust and friendship is developed.
Let us remember that, as a church, we can inspire, mentor, and make disciples, much like the early Adventist pioneers did. By nurturing and journeying with God's people during their times of doubt, we can cultivate a community ready to embrace the future with hope and conviction while waiting for Jesus to return.
In Matthew 28:19, Jesus instructs us to "Go and make followers of all people in the world." This command challenges us to actively engage with those experiencing crises of faith in any generation. In His perfect time, once equipped, they will become effective disciples of Jesus Christ, ready to share their stories, which you will be part of, and the truth you have shared from the Bible. It is an investment, but it will all be worth it in the end!
So, I urge you to commit to walking alongside those struggling or having a crisis, offering support and guidance as they navigate doubt and uncertainty. Rather than questioning where the blame lies for weakened religious commitment, let us see these challenges as opportunities for ministerial outreach and support. By demonstrating love, acceptance, and a steadfast presence and consistently sharing the truths from the Scripture, we can help them rediscover and strengthen their faith, drawing them closer to God's purpose for their lives.
We are almost home – as Desmond Doss did as a medic who refuses to carry a weapon because of his conviction and where his battalion is pretty much left for dead up on a ridge when everyone else retreats; he stayed behind throughout the night just for one more soul to be saved. We have a special calling as a church in these last days where we are to reach out to that one lost precious soul, as we are given a wonderful opportunity and beautiful messages of truth and hope to share as we wait for His soon coming.
If you, your family, or friends are experiencing a crisis of faith, please know that you are not alone. Reach out to me or your church leaders, and we will be here to journey with you, offering support and guidance as we all await the glorious return of Jesus.